Hi
Lynn is right not all men are jerks,my hubby is wonderful and really good to me.I think you need to get out there and smile,men look at you,ok no they dont care but thats because they know you.Try to be more confident,you are lucky to have men look at you like that,i wish i did,instead they see me and then run,lol.Good luck hunny.
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julie
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To: depression-anxiety@yahoogroups.comFrom: nascarwert@yahoo.comDate: Tue, 22 Jan 2008 23:12:07 -0800Subject: Re: [depression-anxiety] Re: when you just don't care anymore.....
hey hey hey not all men are jerks.i love my wife of 35 yrs. the only girl i have ever known. keep looking,maybe you are looking at the wrong spot. we met at church.good luck finding someone.make sure you believe in yourself 1st before looking. be proud of who you are. you will have better hunting that way. men look at the way you carry yourself. wear plenty of smilesBonnie Morris <yearlyscoots@yahoo.com> wrote:Martha,May I inquire as to about how old u are? I am 27, and find myself frustrated at the dating pool selection. Men just don't seem to be like they did in my parents dating era. I'll admit its hard to do the dating scene. Also, I find myself always trying to measure up dating partners with my parents and they always seem to fall short. I figure if my parents gave me unconsitional love/ why can't a man do the same, and that hasn't happened for me yet, which also gives me an even more depressing outlook on men. Bonniemartha51986 <martha51986@yahoo.com> wrote:I see your point. However, I am too depressed right now to talk to guys or to smile. I am struggling with major depression and problems in my life, and yes I am seeing a psychiatrist and am on anti-depressants and am also seeing a counselor (a female, who is very kind and caring and is helping me). It is just a huge struggle to survive right now. And I have never been the 'perky, bubbly' type of woman and I really hate those types of personalities. I am introverted and analytical, and I want a guy who likes me for who I am, and I do not want to try to be 'happy' and be someone that I am not. I am a melancholy type personality and am a very talented musician, and musicians are melancholy (unless you are an air-headed pop singer, but I digress). - In depression-anxiety@yahoogroups.com, lynn griffin <nascarwert@...> wrote:>> well martha i can guess why boys don't come around. try to carry yourself better. believe you are a catch and show it. you need to talk more around guys, and smile.....SMILE!> if you go around with a frown,guys won't like it.> 1 more thing. have you watched the secret the 1st 20 mins. on you tube?> watch that clip...it will show you the secret.> all males are not self centered....only us good looking one''s are! lol i am kidding> good luck girl,and smile,the more happy you are the more men you will attracked> carry yourself well...you know,you have seen girls that way.> go get em> your buddie lynn> martha51986 <martha51986@...> wrote:> So, what does everyone do when they don't care anymore? I am caring > for two elderly parents, and working full-time, and fighting > depression which is partly from my thyroid condition, and partly > chronic depression. There are a couple of males who are friends of my > dad who will help me and my mom with him, as he uses a walker and it > is difficult to get him to appointments. My boss at work ignores me, > he comes in at 10:30 in the morning, and talks to the secretary and > not to me. He refuses to get a new printer, though it has not worked > properly for over a year. I am tired of being so alone at work. I am > a musician also, and that is one of the only things that keeps me > going. Otherwise, I would find a way to end it all. I can't deal with > always being on the losing end of relationships; I want to know, WHY > do the girls who have no personality of their own, end up with the > guy? Granted, the guy they are with is a self-centered jerk, but > still. Why do guys not go out with smart, quiet women, like myself? I > am not ugly, guys check out my looks all the time. But that doesn't > mean anything, they are just looking, they don't care about me. ARE > THERE any relationships that are truly equal with males and females? > Or is everyone in some goddamn co-dependant relationship where > everyone likes one person better and the other person is self-> centered and is being chased and admired but can't give anything in > the relationship? > > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------> Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search.> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]>---------------------------------Never miss a thing. Make Yahoo your homepage.[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]---------------------------------Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search.[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
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