wish me health: Re: [depression-anxiety] What I've noticed bill lisa don't listen to me!

ohhhhh that hurts dad

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote: OK and I know just where to park it lol

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: yes but not often. last nite i was talking to pooh diana and my wife came out and went nuts.
but 1 more thing dad,i would like a brand new bike for my birthday,and don't be cheap this time! lol

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
hey bud do you ever use the yahoo IM ?

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: ok dad,but your son is 55 lol

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote: lynn we be twins from birth lol, but with our age differance you can call me daddy lololol

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: lol funny thing..almost ever thing you say sounds like me talking. after the hooker thing,my wife would had went nuts. but i would had said it. lol
are you my long lost bro.? lol

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
lynn, PMS is a killer bud, thank God mine is past that, I was gone alot in those days lol. Now it's the other direction, do what ya want just don't mess with my world. She called me from Hawaii and said what are you doing tonight, said oh not much, just have a couple of hookers coming over later.........I hear well have fun, and play safe. Grrrrrrrrr women lol But in reality my daughter and grandson are coming over and we're having dinner and a movie. Love them both, but after wifes comment the other sounds better lol

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: why listen to me...i am nuts! lol
i got a wife that hates me getting on line to talk to any one!
every waking monent i should be with her....well under her heal would be more the truth! lol
just a bad time of the month right now. bill are you with me...i think i will go gay! lol
i am kidding don't want to scare you bill.
i got about 1 more week of this crap,than a few days of peace...than HELL ALL OVER AGAIN! lol
i wish my wife would go to the islands lol

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote:
well at least it's good, I will take the fifth. I have to find things all year to do, even if it's vaccuming dusting, or making dinner. It keeps my mind busy, keeps me younger at heart, make sence? I see your not on yim lol I haven't done the divorce papers, as of yet. after talking to lynn, gonna give it one last push, if not! I need to be happy to be able to feel good about myself. I wish you luck, and a short winter. :)

gerald nemecek <nemecek_gerald@yahoo.com> wrote:
Oh, I know that's what it is. I said before that I dread winter coming, because of it. Summer no problem, fishing , motorcycle etc. but winter? I gotta keep my eyes peeled for the divorce process server. Every year. seriously. I think he filed 2-3 times. eah, we only knew each other about 6 months thought of it as an adventure. Figured what the heck if it doesn't work we'll just call it quits. But when it's good, it's good. And I can't see tossing it just because winter is rolling around.

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote: does he have a hobby? if not he should get one. then maybe he wouldn't be blaming you for his misery. Boredum will kill you faster than anything inside. Plus tell him to buy a little heater for the garage lol, works for me :) been 37 almost 38 years for me....... we both admit we married for the wrong reason. I was in the service and lonely, she wanted out of her parents house lol. knew each other for 2 years, dated about 2 weeks in that period. Shows what determination can do. lol

gerald nemecek <nemecek_gerald@yahoo.com> wrote: 87 yrs. no, only 11 but it seems like......Plus he's retired, so all the time in the world on his hands.

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote: how long have you been married? sounds like the rutt pattern, and taking for granted.

gerald nemecek <nemecek_gerald@yahoo.com> wrote: No, not ! it is ? Asking as if "am I seeing something wrong here?" 2 to argue, so how can I be arguing with myself? He's answering back. I think that makes 2, but he says hes not arguing. (to clarify, talking -to him- IS arguing)

Bill Edwards <b.r.edwards@sbcglobal.net> wrote: My 2 cents worth, all guy's aren't grouchy pigs. I agree with lynn, some women are worse. Then there is myself and my wife, we say hi, she goes her way I go mine. lol I made my hide away in the garage, lazyboy TV and refrig. So we don't argue lol. Great life huh ha ha ha.

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: well well,sounds like you might get mad. my wife thinks we fight...the truth is ..she fights,i am so laid back,not a fighter. but what i will do is try to calm her down. wrong! she still goes off. i had to call 911 on her, they told me to just shut up,don't try to calm her down,soon she stopped yelling. not sure if you are the same way. do you get out of control? you might not be like my wife,she has never been wrong! and i am not kidding,she never says she is sorry. never!
it is had for you and i to talk about this,because we can't tell the tone of voice. just looked like you were really mad by the amount of !!!!!! marks.
try to stay in control.
love you girl,best of luck
your buddie lynn

gerald nemecek <nemecek_gerald@yahoo.com> wrote:
Well, I must be married to a woman then. lol! Even if I admit being wrong (which I sometimes am) Oh great, now I'm going to get kicked out of "women 101" for admitting I was wrong! A typical fight here gets out of control, after everything cools down I'll say something like, sorry, shouldn't have went that far etc, all he'll say is then don't argue with me then. How am I the only one argueing?????! Takes 2! Plus anyway, what I meant was why can't SOME guys, take a trained 3rd party PROFESSIONAL advice? Such as Don't bring up the past, fight fair, read this article, etc. And it's usually the guy who won't follow thru. If they are supposedly making an "effort" to fix things, why don't they?

lynn griffin <nascarwert@yahoo.com> wrote: hey hey hey
from a guys veiw....woman think things are bad because they don't see themselves as being wrong on any thing. i should say i am only speaking from 1 mans point of veiw towards 1 womans pt of veiw. i am the guy that is all wrong,but i get all the support from her family and mine. ask your and his brothers and sisters if you can. as long as both of you are there. this could really be trouble lol better not listen to me any more! lol

Lisa <nemecek_gerald@yahoo.com> wrote:
Why (like Rhonda said) when the therapist recommends something, it's
usually the MAN who won't do it? They act like they are doing you such
a big favor by going, but then never follow thru on the suggestions.
Why even go? Is it to "shut the woman up"? Mine will go, but flat out
lie to the guy. How does he expect any help that way. Then say to
me "ah, I'm not going anymore, the guy is a quack". I'm not saying all
guys, but if you read these posts plus my experience, it's pretty
common.

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